I've said this before--and I feel so stodgy for saying it--maybe so
"old-fashioned" (sometimes I call myself a conservative radical--I
suppose I mean "moderate radical"...)--but I'm in this for the
love: The "amory" in
"polyamory." The love not the
sex.
Nothing against sex. Sex can be
wonderful. But I'm after....something a
little different. Affection. Caring.
Maybe something like coziness.
Comfortableness. And sex as
well—yes--in that context.
I like polyamory for including all that. And freedom.
So, as I've said before, I am sex positive--while allowing for
the fact that sexuality can be misused and abused, but shouldn’t be.
And I do distinguish "polyamory" from "open
marriage" from "free love."
They're related -- but not the same thing (from my perspective).
"Can Anybody Find Me...Somebody to Love?"
What appeals to me…isn’t primarily a traditionally sexy body. Or a particular combination or number of
males and females to be involved with.
It’s a nice, comfortable, cozy group of people that I care about…that
care about me.
Just my thing, I guess.
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