Thursday, October 4, 2012

Review: "The Most Golden Bulgari" (2 of 2)


The story does entertain.  You have the interaction of Djanko and Picano.  You have the comic relief of the expatriate actresses and Mr. Muscle.  You have, as well, the escapades of Djanko’s various friends and hangers on.

And yet…this story also disquiets.  Are these the people one really wants to spend one’s life—or even a year—with?  The expatriates are not stupid—but they do seem superficial.  Picano himself…seems confused, uncertain.  Of course, people are often confused in their early twenties.  But if Picano is looking for love, it’s not clear how well he’s doing.  He seems happy enough with Djanko—at least until he realizes he isn’t.  And when he leaves Rome for a weekend motorcycle trip to France, he realizes how unhappy he actually is and decides never to return; writing a brief letter to inform Djanko of his decision.

And, despite a sexual escapade earlier that causes him to reflect on his betrayal of his “fidelity,” it’s not clear exactly what “fidelity” means to him.  He’d already gone to bed with a variety of men during this year in Rome.  Did any of this sex bring him any closer to love?  Did the sex have any significance at all for him?

Indeed, in common with Edmund White, Picano finds casual sex liberating.  Heading across southern France at the end of this section, Picano has sex with a stranger in Marseille.  “[T]his nameless French sailor taught me that neither love nor even attraction was needed for sex, and that indeed, somehow it became sharper, more encompassing, when it was free of all that.”

The liberation of pure sex—not love, not even attraction; just the experience of sex—what some of us may have experienced in our first solitary childhood masturbations.  Of course, Picano is describing the mid-1960s, well before the era of AIDS—even before Stonewall!  Later, when AIDS surfaced and people were urged to “know your partners,” Edmund White remarked on how strange this phrase seemed.  Wasn’t the whole point to simply have as much sex as you could?  Wasn’t sex supposed to free you?  Why on earth would you bother with “knowing your partners?”  Picano certainly chronicles a bye gone age.

So this is a disquieting book.  Picano has sex, and it seems to satisfy.  Presumably he succeeded in “becoming a homosexual” (but doesn’t that phrasing sound a bit quaint in retrospect?).  At least in this first section of the book, he doesn’t succeed in finding love.  What he does gain is a beautiful gold Bulgari watch—which years later will come in handy when Picano finds himself in dire circumstances back in New York.

An interesting read, certainly—but prone to provoking mild indigestion.

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